When I said "no one likes a town leader" I was pointing out that no one likes "being told what to do". I would have thought this implication was obvious so I became frustrated when you claim something akin to me saying I was declaring myself town leader.
Similar problems apply to 3-4 other things you wrote.
PS: If you really want to push my buttons, you should probably reply now and say something like:
Bookitty wrote: Accuse someone of being nasty immediately after accusing them of being overly conciliatory, and they resort back to being overly conciliatory. Never fails.